Their feud explained: Jay Z reveals why he quarrels with longtime pal Kanye West... and it has nothing to do with Kim Kardashian
Jay Z has had a complicated friendship with rapper Kanye West.
The two have seemed to be on the outs ever since the Paranoid singer wed Kim Kardashian with a feud between the reality TV diva and Jay's wife Beyonce often an explanation for why the two old friends from New York have fallen out.
But on Wednesday the hip hop legend, 47, sat down with Dean Baquet from?The New York Times?to clarify what is going on with his old buddy.
Jay went out of his way to insist he will always love the guy?and that they will laugh at these spats when they're 89.
Always pals:?Jay Z has had a complicated friendship with rapper Kanye West, but this will always be buddies he told the NYT
Not her fault: The two have seemed to be on the outs ever since the Paranoid singer wed Kim Kardashian with a feud between the reality TV diva and Jay's wife Beyonce often an explanation for why the two old friends from New York have fallen out?
Jay admitted they have a lot of ups and downs.
But they have recently been in contact.?
'I [talked to] Kanye the other day, just to tell him, like, he's my brother. I love Kanye. I do. It's a complicated relationship with us.'
But there have been a lot of issues.
West reportedly left Tidal in July over a money dispute, and last October, West publicly slammed JAY Z during a concert rant.
'Kanye came into this business on my label. So I've always been like his big brother. And we're both entertainers. It's always been like a little underlying competition with your big brother.
In better days: Kanye and Jay onstage at the Tidal launch event #TIDALforALL at Skylight at Moynihan Station in 2015 in New York City
'And we both love and respect each other's art, too. So it's like, we both - everyone wants to be the greatest in the world. You know what I'm saying? And then there's like a lot of other factors that play in it. But it's gonna, we gonna always be good.'
But not everything is perfect.
'In the long relationship, you know, hopefully when we're 89 we look at this six months or whatever time and we laugh at that.
He let it all out: Jay went out of his way to insist he will always love the guy and that they will laugh at these spats when they're 89.
Raw and unfiltered: The Hova was seen in a painting for the cover of T, which is the magazine for The New York Times
'There's gonna be complications in the relationship that we have to get through. And the only way to get through that is we sit down and have a dialogue and say, "These are the things that I'm uncomfortable with. These are the things that are unacceptable to me. This is what I feel."
'I'm sure he feels that I've done things to him as well. I'm not a perfect human being by no stretch.'
Jay also has theories on why Kanye gets into hot water so often.
Jay was NOT at the wedding: The singer seemed to not be invited to his Italian nuptials with Kim in 2015
'[West is] a very compassionate person. And a lot of times he get in trouble trying to help others.
'So, I can identify with it. It's just that there's certain things that happened that's not really acceptable to me. ... And we just need to speak about it. But there's genuine love there.'?
Jay Z started talking about the infidelity when he addressed the scars he still has from his past.
Ego: The rapper suggested part of his problem with Kanye is that they both want to be number one; here West is seen with Kim and North in 2015
Those scars led to him push away his wife, 36. And that led to the cheating that she addressed in Lemonade.
'You have to survive. So you go into survival mode, and when you go into survival mode, what happens? You shut down all emotions. So, even with women, you gonna shut down emotionally, so you can't connect. ... In my case, like, it's deep. And then all the things happen from there: infidelity,' he said.
He has never named the woman he cheated with. Beyonce has called her 'Becky with the good hair.'?
First she touched on his straying on Lemonade.
The word is out: Also on the interview Jay admitted he had cheated on Beyonce. Seen in September
Then he addressed it on 4:44.
But he said that it was not planned that way and they were actually going to do a joint album.?
'We were using our art almost like a therapy session. And we started making music together. And then the music she was making at that time was further along. So, her album came out as opposed to the joint album that we were working on.'
He added: 'We still have a lot of that music. And this is what it became. There was never a point where it was like, "I’m making this album." I was right there the entire time.'
His side: 'You have to survive. So you go into survival mode, and when you go into survival mode, what happens? You shut down all emotions... And then all the things happen from there: infidelity,' he said. Seen in 2014
?She has stuck it out: Beyonce wed Jay Z in 2008. Here she is seen in 2016
The music made them 'very, very uncomfortable.'
Jay told the NYT: 'But the best place in the hurricane is in the middle of it.
'The best place is right in the middle of the pain. And that's where we were sitting. And it was uncomfortable. And we had a lot of conversations.
'[I was] really proud of the music she made, and she was really proud of the art I released.
'And, you know, at the end of the day we really have a healthy respect for one another's craft. I think she's amazing.'
And Jay Z even hinted that they could have divorced.?
'You know, most people walk away, and, like, divorce rate is like 50 percent or something ’cause most people can’t see themselves.
'The hardest thing is seeing pain on someone’s face that you caused, and then have to deal with yourself.'
They have a big life: The Carters have three kids together: Blue Ivy (pictured), Rumi and Sir. Here they are seen in February
Jay also took the time to talk about those scars and how he has faced them with the help of therapy.
'I grew so much from the experience,' he said.
'But I think the most important thing I got is that everything is connected. Every emotion is connected and it comes from somewhere. And just being aware of it. Being aware of it in everyday life puts you at such a ... you're at such an advantage. You know, you realize that if someone's racist toward you, it ain't about you.?
'It's about their upbringing and what happened to them, and how that led them to this point. You know, most bullies bully. It just happens. "Oh, you got bullied as a kid so you trying to bully me." I understand.'
This understanding has caused him to soften.?
Deep:?Jay also took the time to talk about those scars and how he has faced them with the help of therapy. 'I grew so much from the experience,' he said. 'But I think the most important thing I got is that everything is connected'
She opened the can: The beauty talked of infidelity in Lemonade which shocked their fans
'And once I understand that, instead of reacting to that with anger, I can provide a softer landing and maybe, "Aw, man, is you O.K.?"' he said.
'I was just saying there was a lot of fights in our neighborhood that started with, "What you looking at? Why you looking at me? You looking at me?"
'And then you realize: "Oh, you think I see you. You’re in this space where you’re hurting, and you think I see you, so you don’t want me to look at you. And you don’t want me to see you."'
It's been a big week for Jay Z. On Tuesday it was announced he had been nominated for eight Grammy Awards; the 2018 show will air live from Madison Square Garden in NYC on CBS on Sunday, January 28.?
He spills:?The star said that it was scars from his past that caused him to shut down then push away his wife, 36. And that led to the cheating that she addressed in Lemonade. Seen in 2015
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